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Thankful [Dec. 1st, 2009|03:26 pm]
We had our Thanksgiving on Sunday with Polly and Sophie, and it was absolutely lovely. I was thinking about how much I have to be thankful for... and that was even more evident later that night when I was getting the remnants of meat off the carcass and went to pull off the wish bone, but then 2nd guessed myself, as I realised I have nothing to wish for. Not to say things are perfect, but I am really very happy. What a wonderful feeling!

Then that night Theo got really bad gas that was making him really cranky and I got a sore throat... oh well, it's the big stuff that matters, right? Anyhow, my sore throat is gone without turning into a cold, and hopefully Theo will be better soon too. We're trying lots of different things, but I'm not sure what the deal is... It's horrible, though! In addition to the really strained crying and the fussiness, he also has really stinky black poos! It's totally disturbing. But, back to being thankful--the last 3 nights in a row Theo has managed to go 4.5 hours + without feeding (last night was nearly 6!!!). Serious luxury... We're pretty sure it's because we're keeping our room warmer. We're now boiling at night, but it's probably worth it (unless we're over-heating him too which is making him so lethargic he can hardly wake up... hopefully I'm just being overly paranoid)

For thanksgiving I experimented, and made a pumpkin cheesecake instead of a pumpkin pie. I was really nervous that it wouldn't be good or that even if it was it wouldn't feel like Thanksgiving without pumpkin pie. But it was DELISH and I think it will become a tradition--way better than pumpkin pie! We might make one for christmas too. This one I made crustless to avoid the soggy crust situation, and we served with what would have been the crust (ginger snaps) on the side. Pretty good... but Simon thinks we should try the crust for the christmas one. If nothing else it will be easier to serve... wish we could share the leftovers for you all to taste!

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Some of My thoughts/sharing time... [Oct. 17th, 2009|09:39 am]

In one liners, because, even though I'm pretty caught up on sleep now, I think that's all my brain is capable of.


We are all doing well and settling in nicely.  Theodore seems pretty happy about most things... except when he's upset... but as long as he's not being changed he's very consolable. 

Last night we survived a change with one in-flight pee and 2 in-flight poos.  No casualties or messes (besides going through 3 diapers instead of 1). 

When he's hungry or trying to soothe himself with his fingers he snorts a lot.  It's pretty funny.

Simon thinks he has Roger's chin. 

At the hospital, the midwife who discharged us was the first male midwife I've ever come accross.  He introduced himself as "Willy the midwife."  Simon later told me Willy was looking right at him when he said it, almost like he was daring Simon to laugh (almost nobody is called Willy here--it is the most common word little boys use for their penises). 

I'm still in shock that we have a baby--almost like I was forgetting that my pregnancy was going to result in a baby.

I'm also in shock that he arrived before his due date.  I was totally expecting him to be born in November. 

Silly, but It's weird to adjust how your stomache--that grows pretty rapidly throughout your 9 months of pregnancy, then loses so much bulk in one moment.  Not back to it's original size, of course, but still. 

I am overwhelmed by how lucky I am... to have such a precious baby, an amazing husband, and the best extended family one could ever dream of. 
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I'm not ONLY bitter [Sep. 18th, 2009|10:59 am]


I can still appreciate the funny moments--

Last night after dinner I was doing the dishes, and Simon mentioned having emptied the dishwasher when he got home from work.  I almost didn't think anything of it until I remembered I emptied the dishwasher that afternoon.  So I said, "No you didn't, I did before you got home from work!"  So he asked why I left all those dishes in it... to which of course I responded that I had put some dirty dishes in after emptying it. 

Simon then proceded to (what seemed almost randomly) open cupboards and take things out and put them in the dishwasher.  We both couldn't stop laughing. 

Oh modern conveniences...

Note to guests: you may want to avoid dining with us for a week or so.  :-) 

 

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Fun [Aug. 31st, 2009|08:05 pm]

Awesome day today:

Started with good breakfast, followed by being productive and taking the recycling to Sainsburys. 

Later we went to the Kew Bridge Steam Museum for their "Giants of Steam" event (today was a bank holiday), which was even better than expected--in addition to seeing the 1846 90 inch engine in operation, we also got to see the 1820 Boulton and Watt engine running, and more!  It was very busy and festive, with lots of people dressed up in wartime outfits.  
 
Then finally the sun had decided to come out, so we ran to the shop and picked up an improvised picnic of falafel with baba gonoush and a seaweed salad, which were both delish, and went to Kew Gardens for the last couple hours before it closed. 

In addition throughout the day I've been working on my weekend-long bread making project, which should be finished relatively soon.  Although it smells really good, it's kind of a let down as it pretty much didn't rise at all.  The good news is that I think I may be able to solve the problem next time by using fresher flour.  

In other news, I think there's a good chance I had some internal bruising today after some rough knee/elbow action from the little one. 
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Things I'm excited about [Jul. 25th, 2009|11:07 pm]
Having no work at all tomorrow

My new black socks, and throwing away my pairs that have holes in the socks and toes.

We just got some sourdough starter from a colleague of Simon's.  We're feeding it every day, and when it's big enough I'm going to have another go at making sourdough bread, and sourdough pancakes (but I need Grammy's recipe for that, so if anyone has it, can you pass it along?)

The new accessory/word I just learned--fascinator.  I think it's hilar, and have to buy one for the wedding we're attending in sept.  Maybe people won't notice how pregnant I am if my fascinator is fascinating enough. 

FINALLY having wireless internet again, and having 2 working computers.  It's like we actually live in the 21st century now.
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Student quotes from this week [Jun. 26th, 2009|12:46 pm]
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Both from 6 year old piano students at a private school where I teach:

Annie:  When the baby comes, it's daddy is going to have to look after it while we do piano. 

And in preparation for a recital I'm putting on there this coming Wed:

Me: ...and when you've finished your piece everyone will clap, and you can walk up to the front of the stage and curtsy.
Radhika:... or bow?
Me:  Yep!
Radhika: ... or twirl?
Me: well, probably a bow or a curtsy would be best.
Radhika:  or a freeze??  (demonstrated by hands out in the air and frozen facial expression)
Me: (trying not to laugh) Ummm... probably just a bow or a curtsy. 


In other news, yesterday seems to have been one of the warmer days we've had this year, hitting 26C (79F), and everyone is complaining of the heat.  Seriously, Brits, there is no pleasing you.  The sunny weather has been so nice!!!
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Camping Trip [Jun. 6th, 2009|03:19 pm]
Last week we had our half term break, and it coincided with lovely weather and not too much other work (and for once, I had already HAD my cold the week before!), so we decided to go camping.  Actually we originally thought that since it was also Simon's birthday, maybe we'd go to a b&b for a night, but after much consideration decided to camp, which meant we got to go for 4 nights for the price of 1!  We went to north Devon, and enjoyed 5 days of beautiful weather, lovely walks and even a bit of ocean swimming.  Well... getting in and then right back out again really quickly.  I was a bit worried about my increase in trips to the bathroom during the night, but we kept that in mind when we chose a spot, and the fancy facilities of this campsite made things pretty easy (although I think I may have preferred being somewhere less crowded so I could just go 15 ft away by a tree).  I thought of the midnight runs as my chance to see the stars, as the days are so long now the stars were never properly shining by the time we went to bed. 

So I thought I'd share a few photos:





Roger, this last one made us think of you.  :-) 

There are a few more here
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little things [Apr. 29th, 2009|08:10 pm]
So we are home... not unpacked (well, some of us...), but back to work and real life.  It was a really fun trip, but I couldn't live like that... eating out 2 meals a day and visiting someone new every 3 hours.  But I'm glad we got to see as many people as we did, and eat as much delicious food as I did.  :-)   And a pretty complete experience having had tornados in TN and earthquakes in SoCal.  Of course, everyone in London thinks that's normal every day stuff in those parts of the world. 

Still trying to figure out what to do about our couch... we ordered it before we left, and were supposed to be able to arrange delivery from the states, but it got delayed until the 9th.  I was worried we would wait and then be told they weren't able to get it... but I called today and they said that was unlikely.  So... now what?  the 9th seems a lot closer this side of the trip, and I kind of figure anything else we ordered would take at least that long.  The fact remains that we have not seen (in real life) or sat on the couch, so we might decide we don't like it (although I did get confirmation that it would definitely be returnable, including the delivery fee, so that's impressive).  Then we'd have to wait until after the 9th of May, and then be stuck without a couch or even an idea of which couch we might want.  Or even though it's unlikely, it's still possible they'd say it won't come at all.  Ugh... stressful.

Work has been good though.  A little tricky to get back in to it, and also this week a little extra stressful while simultaneously being fun because I've been telling everyone that I'm pregnant.  Ps, if you're reading this and didn't already know, I'm pregnant.  Yesterday and today I told the 2 schools I was most concerned about, as I've been working at both on a "temporary" basis that has basically turned in to permanent, but not officially.  Of all the places I work, they are my two favourite.  So a relief to have a positive response from both, and both seemed fine with my idea of finding someone to fill in while I'm away (now to find the right people...).  The head teacher at one of the schools actually said (genuinely), "How wonderful that we get to share in the experience of your pregnancy!"  That school always amazes me... if I didn't experience it first hand, I don't think I would believe that a school could be so supportive of its teachers. 

All my kids' parents are being really nice too... one of them who had a baby last October told me their son would be grown out of his car seat by the time ours comes, so she's going to give it to us (!!)... another one had made me a little treat bag with houmus and pita and chocolate tonight, which was awesome as Simon is out so I was on my own for dinner.

The only downer this week (besides still needing to unpack and not being quite moved in yet...) is that I ended up with a really mild-looking but crazily-itchy rash all over my body.  It's a bit silly, because there are so many factors that could have caused it, as it started while we were away.  Different soaps/lotions/climate/sun/clothes/stress/tiredness/pregnancy/etc., but I went to the dr yesterday, being the worry wart that I am.  It was my first negative experience with the NHS, and a pretty lame dr's appt in general (my regular dr is on holiday this week).  First he told me I needed a blood test to make sure it's my liver.  I asked him what that would mean if it was my liver, and he said, "I don't know, it's just what we have to check for."  Seriously.  Then he said it was probably being over cautious, and it was probably tiredness.  I asked if it was my liver, would it be something that could be managed, and he said, there would be things that could be done.  So that was weird and ambiguous... he asked then since I was already there if I wanted to hear the heart beat.  I said ok, then got annoyed that he hadn't even asked to see the rash, so I showed him as I was about to get on the table, and he said, "oh, that's __________.  Don't worry, you don't have to remember what it's called..."  basically something to do with hair folicles that get enlarged because of the horomones.  He said it was normal in pregnancy (and would be with me for the rest of the pregnancy).  Told me to use cortisone.  I asked him again what it was called, planning to google it when I got home and he didn't tell me, just told me not to bother trying to remember it.  Seriously. 
I asked him if I should still get a blood test, and he said yes... and told me the hospital (have to go there to have the blood drawn) was open from 8am to 6pm.  Postponed tonight's lessons to get there about 5:20, then ran around for 20 minutes realizing I only had £1.30 in change and a £20 note, trying to find change for the meters that required a minimum of £1.80, went into the hospital and asked where I should go to have a blood test, was directed all the way to the other side of the huge hospital, where there was a completely empty waiting room and a sign saying "Blood testing, open Mon-Fri 9am to 4:45 pm."  I have no idea why the person at the front desk didn't tell me.  I'm not sure I'll have time tomorrow.  Lame. 
Wow, that turned into a rant.  Sorry. 
Ok, that's it for now, following (locked) post is our new address. 
Hope you're all wonderful!
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Big day [Mar. 24th, 2009|07:29 pm]

Things are changing thick and fast... today it was the car--we traded in the yaris for an 02 corrola 3 door hatchback. 

I don't think it's fully sunk in yet, as we only recently just started thinking about getting a new car.  But the yaris was going to need a new clutch, and we figured we'd want a bigger car eventually anyhow, so it made more sense to sell it than get it fixed.  We had hoped our next car would be a corrola, but also briefly considered getting a ford focus.  When I was younger, though, I had told myself that I would never ever buy a ford... so even though foci are supposed to be really reliable, I knew that any little (normal or abnormal) problem we'd have I'd always be thinking, Damn Ford!  So I think it's for the best. 

Apparently the exhaust was also coming apart on the yaris, which I hadn't noticed, but explains why it was sounding so loud lately (I just thought I had forgotten how loud it could be because since it's been so long since we could have the windows open). 

So yeah... it was the first car we looked at, and I think it was a fair price and within our budget, so that's good.  I'm sure we could have gotten more for the yaris selling it privately, but with the move and the impending trip, it'll be nice to not have to worry about that. 

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Immature thoughts [Mar. 21st, 2009|07:21 pm]
Last weekend when Simon and I were at a pub I went to the bathroom and there was a sign up that made me laugh, even if I should be far more mature:

These toilets are cleaned every hour.  If there is a problem, please speak to the duty manager.

Of course, said with a British accent it wouldn't be funny at all, but it is with an American one. 
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Small Notes [Mar. 18th, 2009|09:26 pm]

It's sunny here and I only worked 1 hour today.  Awesome. 

On an unrealated note... the woman that lives above us vacuums like 2-3 times a week.  We've considered that perhaps she has OCD, or Simon suggested that she's running a small business cutting and selling cocaine and has to clean up the evidence regularly.  Any other ideas?

And on yet another unrelated note, I think this is super cool and was really clever.  I love how by the end everyone has joined in. 
It totally reminds me of Ferris Bueller's day off.  Are they showing it in the states? 

And lastly... we're moving in a week and a half.  I'll put our new address soon in a new (locked) post if you want to update your address books. 
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Funny [Feb. 25th, 2009|07:25 pm]
Today one of my students (6 or 7 years old) told me, "In the summer, I'm going to America!"  I, of course, said, "Wow, that's exciting, where are you going?"  The girl replied, "Davis."  I started thinking there must be another Davis.... so I said, "Do you know where that is?  Is that in CA?"  She replied, "San Francisco."  So, assuming it must actually be my Davis, I replied with excitement, "Wow Constance, that's such a funny coincidence!!  That's the town I grew up in!!"  She looked at me blankly for a few seconds and then said, "They have 5 cats." 
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Snow Day! [Feb. 2nd, 2009|02:09 pm]

The city has pretty much shut down because of the snow, which is supposed to be the biggest in 20 years (so far, but it's still snowing, so we'll see if that increases).  The tube is a giant mess, with only one line not suspended, and even that line is severely delayed.  London buses aren't running at all, and people are advised not to drive.  The school where I was supposed to work today (and Simon's too) closed because of snow (score!), and actually I cancelled my private lessons too because I didn't want to risk driving on the icy roads.  My rehearsal for tonight was cancelled, too, so it's pretty crazy!  We went to Kew Gardens this morning and it was so beautiful.  We heard there was about 20 cm of snow.  Lots of families were there, the kids adults enjoying a suprise day off.  Even the bank was closed today.  I'll post a few pictures here and you can also link to a few others at photobucket





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Beautiful!!! [Feb. 1st, 2009|11:38 pm]
It's snowing like CRAZY, everything is covered in snow.  I hardly want to go to sleep to miss all the excitement.  I've never seen the snow stick to the ground (at least not the streets) in London, so it's pretty crazy, and a spectacular sight.  Fun!
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Obama [Jan. 20th, 2009|10:58 pm]
Since I now have an Obama shirt, I busted it out today, hoping if I wore it with a skirt it would be nice enough for work.  :-)  It was a big success.  At my first school, even though I was wearing a jacket that partly covered it, it didn't go unnoticed.  One boy in year 4 (=3rd grade) said, "Hey look, she's wearing an Obama-thingy!," followed by the question, "you DID vote for Obama, didn't you???"  At a later school, my year 2 (=first grade) students also were excited, saying, "Hey look, her shirt says Obama!"   I know it's different, but it's funny to imagine a first grader in the states knowing who Gordon Brown is.  Maybe the queen?  And then in my private teaching after school one student's Dad was wearing an Obama t-shirt as well.  Everyone's pretty excited here! 
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update [Jan. 17th, 2009|11:54 pm]

Things are good. We had a lovely Christmas with my parents visiting during a remarkably cold yet clear portion of the winter. (It has since warmed up slightly and begun to drizzle again. Someone told me yesterday this is forecast to last a month. I don’t know if they can really look that far ahead, though).

It was a nice time to pretend to be a tourist. 

We spent the last couple days of their visit over in Paris. We got a good deal on eurostar-hotel tickets, and the train journey there was really easy. And as an added bonus over flying, the eurostar is carbon neutral. Paris had apparently been quite cold, but we found it about the same as London. In addition to walking around the city and outside places like the Louvre and the Musee D’Orse, we also went in to the Musee de l’Orangerie, up the Arc de Triomphe, and into Notre Dame. Overall is was simply great: Notre Dame was spectacular, the sights from the top of the Arc de Triomphe were awesome, and I really liked seeing Monet’s “surround sound” water lilies in l’Orangerie. We had only one complete day there, and we woke up to snow that morning. It continued to snow all day, which was a completely picturesque way to see Paris. We also heard it felt much warmer that day than it had previously. The day we left we woke up to pretty frigid temperatures, and toured around area at Monte Marte and went into Sacre-coeur. 



Then it was back home, parents to the airport, and me back to work. I was lucky to ease back in, so I’ve only been full-steam ahead since last Friday. I’ve given up one extra-curricular activity that I was starting to resent last term, so I’m enjoying not being quite so busy.
 

 

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Work, for those who are interested [Oct. 24th, 2008|03:41 pm]

Although my livejournal might be slightly misleading, most of this term has not been spent out gallivanting with mating deer, but actually working. 

Playing seems to be going well; last week I had 5 gigs.  Actually, 5 paying gigs: one of them was paid well, and two of them not too bad, one not much at all, and the last not quite enough to cover expenses.  Still, it's something!  The most exciting one was Monday night, when I drove to Clacton on Sea (at the mouth of the Thames) to play with a big band made up of all women.  I was playing with some of the best musicians I've ever heard, let alone played with.  It was a bit scary, sight reading a lot of it in the concert, and I found out on the day that the woman who usually plays bass trombone was actually filling in on lead, sitting right next to me.  That was kind of disconcerting, knowing that she knew the music backwards and forwards, and also that she got bumped off of her main instrument so that I could fill in... She was very nice, though, so hopefully a good contact to have made.

Teaching is also really busy.  Simon and I are both doing lots of Wider Opportunities classes--where we introduce a whole class to playing brass instruments, usually 3rd grade age, but last year we had one 4th grade class, and this year we have a class of 2nd graders (yikes), and they all have either a trumpet, baritone, or trombone.  We see them for 8 weeks, 45 minutes each week, and in our 8th session we put on a concert. 
We actually took on 2 extra classes to cover someone who is away for bereavement.  It's a lot of work, but it's pretty rewarding.  Today we asked a class of 30 who would want to continue learning next term, and 26 of them said yes.  This term is different for us, because some of the schools are letting the children take the instruments home to practice.  This week I put together a practice pamphlet to help them remember the notes we have learned, and the songs we are learning.  This was a bit tricky, because a)we haven't been using proper note names, as trumpets are transposing instruments, so everyone playing a "b flat" actually wouldn't work.  Instead, we use numbers--note 1, note 2, and note 3.  and b) obviously, with such little time, we don't teach them how to read music.
So in addition to getting everything written down, we had to come up with a new kind of music notation, one that would hopefully be completely intuitive. 
One girl came up to me last week, saying "Holly... last week I took my instrument, and I was just practicing the notes we've learned, and on accident, I didn't mean to (I'm thinking... oh great, she's dropped it, i'ts broken...), but I accidentally learned Mary Had a Little Lamb."
That was sweet.  She was really proud, and played it in front of the class by herself.

Besides Wider Opps I'm also doing a bit more brass teaching, and started at a different school that's a bit further away.  That's been really enjoyable, as I get to work with them individually for 30 minutes, and also have a brass ensemble.  Crazily, it's a state school, and they get tons of money from the government (I've heard that it is because they have failed their government inspection so many times).  So in addition to them having a really nice miniature performing arts centre, they own a full set of brass instruments, and the kids only have to pay £15 for a whole term of lessons.  The kids there are basically junior high and high school aged.  I'll leave you with a quote from one of the boys, which offers insight to weird cultural views about Miss, Ms, and Mrs, and some slang too.

"When we saw you were going to be our new teacher, we were all really afraid and didn't want to be the first ones in.  We saw you were Ms Bull and we thought you must be divorced, and really mingy and horrible.  But then we met you and you were wicked!"

I'm sure he'll learn to control the verbalization of all his thoughts as he gets a bit older.  But still, nice thought in the end. 

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Wild Encounters [Oct. 19th, 2008|11:17 am]
I'll have to post an update soon about all the busy-ness I've had lately, mostly playing and teaching.  But in the meantime, I thought I'd write instead about our exciting outdoors activities that were taking place when I was slightly less busy.  Last weekend we went to Richmond Park, where we saw and heard lots of deer--the sound they make can be very eery, especially if you're in a dark wooded area.  Kind of like a cross between a cow and a ghost.  You can click to see a video.  Or two.  Make sure the volume is turned up.  Sorry about the shakiness!

We also saw lots of parakeets, which I didn't capture that well in photograph, but made an effort. 



Then the next day at the pub we sat on a wall over the river with geese watching longingly from below.  It was really quite sunny and pleasant. 
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Nightmare [Oct. 19th, 2008|10:27 am]
I had a dream last night that there was a massive write-in campaign and Palin was elected as President.  Scary.  In similar news, we sent off our ballots this week.  I'm sure Obama will win in CA, but hopefully we can be helpful in defeating prop 8 or something. 
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Camping Trip [Aug. 11th, 2008|10:12 am]

We got back from our trip yesterday, and all of our new camping gear was a big success!  It was very different for me camping with pretty much all new gear.  I kind of felt like we looked like posers.  Or even worse, yuppies.  Our small, London-sized car sort of reinforced that, but it's only a 2001, so that could have been worse.  But as the trip went on, I was really glad we had stuff as sturdy as we did when the weather turned sour. 

Here's Simon as we started to try putting up our tent.  Once we got the 3 main poles in it got lifted by a gust of wind and flipped upside-down over the rope in the background.  It was even partly staked down, but they got ripped out easily.  We felt really lucky that nothing broke.  


We had some really nice weather for the next two days, and went on some amazing walks along the coast.  We went swimming at some amazing beaches, too.





In the above picture, our campsite is just out of view, just beyond the top right 3rd of the picture.  Also, the lighthouse on the left is coincidentally on Bull Point.  

But then the weather turned sour with tons of wind and rain (making the wind from the first afternoon seem like absolutely nothing).  The gusts were strong enough to make it quite difficult to stand in one spot... from my experience I'd say they could have easily been 40mph.  We saw lots of broken tents.  Here's a couple examples of less-than-pleasant looking situations, although they don't really do it justice 

We definitely appreciated the sturdiness of our tent, and the water-proofness as well.  Still, by the end everything seemed damp.  


We ended up packing up a day earlier than planned, as the weather wasn't supposed to improve, but we had a dry spell long enough to take the tent down.  I felt really lucky that nothing broke or blew away in the entire process.  The only problem now is how to air out (dry out) the tent when we don't have a backyard... and even worse, it's raining here too.  
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